" The Relationship is not done yet. "

A Relationship may only work out if two people belive that they can work it out. No one-sided feelings. No cheating. No lies. It doesnt have to work perfectly like disney movies, a rela5ionship is meant to be a roller coaster ride.  and just because you said a relationship is over , won't really mean it's the end. Feelings don't just disappear. and maybe they never will. but what signs tells me that a relationship is'nt over ? ..

  • Communication - some couples still stay in contact even after a break up but this isnt what i really meant. as a couple, you both have your own way of communication where inly the both of you understands. you know can say things are no longer working out once you both lose this communication. 
  • I love you's - Even though its a good thing to express your feelings, why would you say i love you too an Ex.  Once may be fine , but on a daily basis like you both are still in a relationship,  OMG just date again.  hahaha
  • Making the other jealous on purpose - Why?what are you trying to get? if you're just testing each other whether you guys really care , WHY DON'T YOU ASK INSTEAD?  be honest with your feelings , chance are you might get back together and last longer.
  • Visits- have your Ex visit your place. yeah sure it isnt a bad thing. so why did you guys break up? o.O 
this are some i can't think of more , but if you see yourself still madly in love with the other person and still have mutual feelings , why did you break up? what was it that didn't work out? are you sure things didnt work out?  Maybe .. just maybe , you gave up before trying your very best to fix everything. 
I'm not being a negative person nor have anything againts couples. why bother break up but still act as couples? what's the difference in being officially being in a relationship and Two person loving each other with no title?  honestly , a question i'm mostly curious about. Why did you break up when your Feelings are still mutual? 

this just self opinon, btw. don't hate me. ahaha


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