Road For Joy

GIRLS, GIRLS, GIRLS. what attracts you most in a guy? Height? Fit body? Good personality? Sense of humor? a best friend? What are the gestures that guys do that gives you a little romantic excitement? The one that open doors for you? offers to carry the heavy stuffs you bring? the ones that ask your parents permission to date you? ..  Ideal types of girls differs from one another *obviously* here is what i think girls get attracted to, majority wise.   - Taller than us girls. It doesn't really have to be as tall as a Flag pole really, as long as you're taller than the girl. its cute, when a couple's height matches each other. - Hairstyles. This depends on the girl, i guess. Some doesn't like guys with long hair * include me there*. some likes it more when you can fully see the guy's face. especially if the guy is a shy person. tho some prefers them with long hair. - FACIAL HAIR. some girls finds it sexy if guys have mustache. * i don't* girls , w...

A Relationship may only work out if two people belive that they can work it out. No one-sided feelings. No cheating. No lies. It doesnt have to work perfectly like disney movies, a rela5ionship is meant to be a roller coaster ride.  and just because you said a relationship is over , won't really mean it's the end. Feelings don't just disappear. and maybe they never will. but what signs tells me that a relationship is'nt over ? .. Communication - some couples still stay in contact even after a break up but this isnt what i really meant. as a couple, you both have your own way of communication where inly the both of you understands. you know can say things are no longer working out once you both lose this communication.  I love you's - Even though its a good thing to express your feelings, why would you say i love you too an Ex.  Once may be fine , but on a daily basis like you both are still in a relationship,  OMG just date again.  hahaha Making the oth...

“ I love you.. but”.  Ever liked anyone but never thought of pursuing because... i don’t know you name it. it can be because you have a lot of reasons . but has it ever cross your mind that maybe, just maybe it wasn’t because you had reason to not pursue or it didn’t felt right at all? Has it ever crossed your mind that maybe it wasn’t love yet? What are these feelings called? i like you not as a friend and not more than that. I’m quite sure i was falling but then i’m still up here. you get me? :)) i can’t say that i was able to stop myself from falling, but then i wasn’t even able to tell him that i love him. ACTUALLY, saying LOVE towards him has me go like asdfghjklqwertyuiop. you get it right? i can’t be the only one who has ever felt this. “I didn’t want to hurt you because i love you, but then i didn’t want you hurt you more because i don’t” kind of feeling.  An infatuation maybe? a feeling that come by only when you’re around and disappears together with you. I was AL...

I'm 19 years old, and i don't feel like it. SINGLEE , no plans to mingle.   XD My family consists of 5 people. i have two REALLY ANNOYING SIBLINGS ; an older brother and a younger sister. my age gap with my older brother doesn't reach a year. (360 days) i have this on and of passion for multimedia. Strong Passion for music I play the piano and guitar. not pro tho. i LOVE chicken.  i play bowling since idk around 6th grade. ( 11 years old ) I'm a veeeerrrryyy lazy person. literally.   i don't like studying. i don't have bad grades tho. >:) i waste my time scrolling up and down in facebook i don't like the idea of being famous  BUT! i have this dream of being a youtuber.  hahaha K.  Favorite colors : Blue and Pink and apple Green  i like cute stuffs but they won't last long with me. Teasing and Fighting with my siblings is an everyday habit. I grew in the middle east. no i don't speak arabic. I'm an Indonesian/ Filipina. i ...

 As a girl, would you fall for someone younger? how young? months? a year? 2 years? 5 years? doesn’t it bothers you, loving a younger one? he may look older but by age he is way younger than you are, don’t you get the feeling of taking care of a little kid no matter how mature he might be? My Dad once told me, “if you’re gonna love someone, at least let them be 5 years older, so you’d both have the same maturity” and I’ve always wondered if its true because kids these days happened to be a lot more mature than people my age. and til this day i haven’t seen any proof of what my dad told me. Then i remembered the days i dated a younger one, honestly, it felt abusive. I’m older but i don’t feel that way and i feel younger but i’m not. He takes care of me because he’s the guy, but i get the “big sister responsibility” feeling where i have to take care of this kid beside me. and slowly, i’ll wish he was older, and as i tell him that ,he tries to and starts to change into someone he...

How long does it takes to fall? What does it takes to fall for someone? Does our Ideal type has anything to do with falling for someone? How long does it takes til we fall out of love? Why do we fall out of love?  3 seconds to fall, 1 weeks to be in love. One month to get bored. 3 months til we let go. *this is really just thru observation*  AS MUCH AS WE WISH TO CONTROL OUR OWN FEELINGS , a tiny little spark may change feelings of one for another. A stranger to a friend, a friend to an admirer, An Admirer to something unexplainable. but then again a tiny spark that doesn’t last long is what it take to have sweet words turn bitter, the space in between gets further apart, Feeling get distant and love starts to fall out.  JUST ONE TINY SPARK , to let someone new in our life ,enough to have ONE PART of our lives filled with happiness and the love of the other, but a tiny spark is not enough to have them and ourselves stay in each other’s  lives. a tiny spark tha...

 Good Day ~ * with hopes to be noticed* I'm Laras Pratiwi; lalas for the kids;) i wish to let you guys know that i’m a beginner in this. I have no talent in sharing experiences, recipes, music, fashion.; I'm not good in entertaining people; i don't have the aura that makes people notice me. so i hope you guys stay tuned and see what i have to share, and join me as i hope to see improvements in me. hahaha. HAve a great day , and nice to meet ya <3